Learning from a Gravel

Learning from a Gravel
READ AND REFLECT

There was a generous man who from the top of buildings spread money denominations:
Rp. 5.000,-
Rp. 10.000,-
Rp. 20.000,-
Rp. 50.000,-
Rp. 100.000,-

Under the building, crowding more people busy dual carriageway. They vied with each other to pick up the money that littered "WITHOUT CARE" source of the money from WHO

One time, the benefactor rose again to the top of the building and this time switching spread of small pebbles into a crowd of people that are on the bottom. Suddenly the crowd going.
There was a hit on the head, shoulders, arms, back and other parts of the body. Then they panic and anger, looked up trying to "FIND OUT" of which the source of gravel is dropped?

That is the attitude of most human beings, when "BLESSING"
(P propitious) come, all busy regardless of who remunerative and very few who are able to be grateful and want to thank God for the blessing.
But when "the problem comes" then all will spontaneously find the source of the problem and the culprit. They will immediately get angry and blame others without wanting to find a solution again.
"Do we just accept that is fine, but do not want to accept that bad?"

Without wanting to know that this life is already "one package" good and bad, happy and hard, everything is a unity that could not be separated.
If one day we "hit the turn" living things worse and hard, then live it courageously and remains "grateful", because that is the key ..

Want to learn "WAIT?"
Later we will meet with those who are stubborn to us.
Want to learn "FORGIVE?"
Later we will be reunited with those who have hurt us.
Want to learn "GIVE?"
Soon we will be faced with people in need.
Want to learn "HUMBLE?"
Just wait, there will be people who humbles us.

The bad news, "LIFE IS NOT THERE WILL BE PERFECT!"
The good news, "WE DO NOT NEED THE PERFECT FOR LIFE CAN ENJOY"

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What is the meaning of success?




According to me people are successful it is not about how big your salary, what car you drive, what you wear gadgets, branded goods what you got, how fancy your wedding party, to which country your honeymoon .... 
Success is when you are able to set aside part of your income for the parent, and will no longer be their parasites.

I've been told not on anyone's him, DO not waste people that keep you from hellfire because you do not know when he would disappear no matter how long.

Never hesitate to ask for help to someone that you think is good for you ....

I've told you not  force harbored a problem that can not afford km faced his own .....no must Because story to me I do not have any right to force you...but try to understand your own heart then try to understand other people's hearts because what if understand each other will bring good results for the future....yes even though it took the name of an escort every effort .....

It is not the pleasure of the world means nothing, but like great drops of honey. So who's just a little taste, it will survive. Namian who throw themselves into it, he will perish.

Oh yes if you want to be someone in life ...
If you want to get something .... 
If you want to win something, always listen to your heart. And if it does not give you the answer .... 
Close your eyes and think of your parents. Then all the barriers and obstacles to be destroyed, and you'll get what you want. The victory is only yours.

The downfall we are not beginning for our grief. Instead beginning for our resurrection. Never let the sadness and grief of our escort.


Silence means death I open
My silence only to keep the heart
In silence I prayed a lot
In silence I had a lot to learn
To achieve in the future.

Everything good that we do
Will present the final results later
Likewise there will be a smile sadri heart.

insults bring blessing




insults bring blessing
One day, a young man drove the loaded contains dozens of books to the office floors 7 at a university when he shouldered the books waiting in the elevator, a security guard who is 55 years old approached him and said: "The lift is for professors and lecturers, others do not allowed to wear this lift, you must pass the stairs ....! 

" Young man explaining to the guard:

"I just want to deliver this book In this car to the office floor 7, is the campus's order book"

However, with violent security guard said:
I said yes should not, should not, you're not a professor or lecturer, should not use this lift

The two men were arguing long enough in front of the elevator door, but, the guard insisted it will not budge. In the minds of the young man thought, if you want to transport the finished book full In this car, at least not have to go back and forth 20 times more to the 7th floor, it will be very tiring

Then, the young man could not hold back any longer guard troublesome, then once crossed his mind, he moved a pile of books to the corner of the hall, then walked away.


After that, the young man explained the events that happened to the boss, and the boss can understand, while also submitted a letter of resignation to the boss, and soon after that he went to the bookstore to buy learning materials high school and reference books, with tears in his eyes he swore I had to work hard, to be able to pass to go to college, I would not let the abused person again.

During the 6 months before the exam, this young man studying for 14 hours every day, because he realized that the time is not much, he could no longer retreat, as he idled, in his mind wanders to the insults of security that does not allow him to wear a lift, imagine this discrimination, he immediately spur enthusiasm, hard work and double tuck.

Later, the young man finally managed to pass it into one institute of medical science. And now, for over 20 years have passed, the young man finally managed to become a doctor clinic.

The doctor thought for a moment, when it is, if it were not for security deliberate complicate how could he wiped the tears from the insult, and stand boldly?


He was indebted to the security insult

Sustenance many forms



Yesterday the rain started at 9 am, a peanut merchant passenger shelter on the porch of my shop. Still full cart, nuts neat. I see him open a small book, apparently the Koran. He diligently with Al-Quran. Up to 10 hours of rain has not stopped.  I started to worry because there is no buyer comes deserted.

I'm out giving water.

"If the rainy season also sell bother ya, sir ..." .. "How much really."

He smiled, "Yes bu .. Hopefully there is a provision ..." He replied.

"Aamiin," I said.

"If you do not run out how, sir?". I asked.

"If not finished yes risks, Bu .., like beans, corn is already open ya love to neighbors, they were also happy to be removed. like maize, beans, cassava is still good to keep. Hopefully just got alms, "he said smiling. "If the rain continues till the afternoon how, sir?" I asked again.

"Thank God my bu ... Means sustenance today allowed a lot of prayer. when rain is the time for prayer efficacious bu ... "he said with a smile.

"Get a chance to ask and sustenance, Bu ..."

"If you do not get money how, sir?" I asked again.

"Then my good fortune to be patient, Bu ... God set sustenance, Bu ... I depend same God .. What aja form of fortune that God love ya I'm grateful wrote. But Alhamdulillah, I was selling salad has never been hungry.

"Never not be any money at all, not unexpectedly neighbors thought ngirimin food. Bu find what we live, which is important to eat let no power for worship and business, "he said again as he put Alqurannya into the box on the cart.

"While the rain patter, Mom ... I can walk and thanked, Bu ..."

I was floored ... Imagine my embarrassment, filled with anxiety when the rain comes, so worried fortune to ignore the material was obtained favor in sight.

I became aware that the provision of guidance, can worship, be grateful and patient is much ... much more valuable than money, possessions and positions ... "Then my good fortune to be patient, Bu ... God set sustenance, Bu ... I depend same God .. What aja form of fortune that God love ya I'm grateful wrote. But Alhamdulillah, I was selling salad has never been hungry.

"Never not be any money at all, not unexpectedly thought neighbors to send food. Bu find what we live, which is important to eat let no power for worship and business, "he said again as he put Alqurannya into the box on the cart.

"While the rain patter, Mom ... I can walk and thanked, Bu ..."

I was floored ... Imagine my embarrassment, filled with anxiety when the rain comes, so worried fortune to ignore the material was obtained favor in sight.

I became aware that the provision of guidance, can worship, be grateful and patient is much ... much more valuable than money, possessions and positions ...

HUMAN and BOTTLE

1. If filled mineral water, 3 IDR price ...

2. If it is filled fruit juice, it costs 10 IDR ...

3. If required Honey Yemen, it costs hundreds of thousands of ...

4. If filled chanel perfume can cost millions.

5. If the water drains filled, only to be discarded in the trash because there is no direct cost and there was no one who likes.

Bottle same but the price is different, because what is filled in it is different ...

So did we ... we are all equal ... we're all human ... that distinguish us from each other are. TAQWA, FAITH & CHARITY that is in us ... that would cause us valuable on our side of GOD or GOD despised by then thrown into hell ...

"...... In fact the person who most glorious sight of Allah is the most righteous person who, indeed, Allah is knowing, Most conscientious"

the story of Uwais al Qarni




In Yemen, there lived a young man named Uwais Al Qarni leper, his mottled. Although disabled, he is a pious young man and very dedicated to her mother. Her mother is an elderly woman who was paralyzed. Uwais always took care of his mother and meets all requests. Only one tall order he granted it. "My son, maybe Mom would soon be together with you, so that Mom can ikhtiar pilgrims," pleaded his mother. Uwais pensive, the journey to Mecca is far past the hot barren desert. People usually use the camel and bring plenty of supplies. However Uwais very poor and do not have a vehicle. Uwais kept thinking to find a way out. Then, buy a calf, I wonder to what the calf? Not possible to go Haji ride bulls. Uwais turned out to make a cage at the top of the hill.
Every morning he was back and forth carrying the calf up and down hills. "Uwais Uwais crazy .. crazy ..." said the people. Well, it's odd behavior indeed Uwais. Never a day passes he carried bull ride down the hill. Makin day the calf grew, and the greater the power needed Uwais. But because the exercises every day, enlarged calf was not felt anymore.   After 8 months passed, came the Hajj season. Ox Uwais has reached 100 kg, as well as her growing muscle Uwais. He became a strong lifting. Now people know what the purpose Uwais carrying bulls every day. It turns out he was training to carry his mother.Uwais mother cradling walk from Yemen to Mecca! Subhan Allah, how great a love Uwais his mother. He was willing to travel long distances and difficult, in order to fulfill her mother's wishes.  Uwais marched carrying her tawaf at the Ka'bah. His mother moved and tears have seen Baitullah. In front of the Kaaba, the mother and child to pray. "O Allah, forgive all the sins of the mother," Uwais said. "What sins?" his mother asked, surprised. Uwais said, "With Mother terampunnya sin, then I will go to heaven. Suffice blessing of the mother would take me to heaven."



Subhan Allah, that is what Uwais sincere and loving. Allah also gave gifts, Uwais instantly healed sopaknya. Just behind the white dots ditengkuknya. Do you know what the wisdom of the sphere are left in the nape? it is a sign to Umar bin Khattab and Ali ibn Abi Talib, the two prominent companions of the Prophet Muhammad to recognize Uwais.


He deliberately sought both Uwais around the Kaaba because Rasulullah SAW said 'At times you will be born a man whose prayers are very fulfilled. You both go looking for him. He will come from the direction of Yemen, he grew up in Yemen. He will appear in your age, look for him. When he met her for help both for you both. "

"God forbid upon you, ungodly mothers and disclaims any duty, and ask that is not right, and kill the child alive, and God hates you a lot of talk, and a lot to ask similarly squandered (scatter wealth)." (HR. Bukhari and Muslim).

the value of thrift

Equally as human beings, whether black and white short high, but the difference in value is sincerity in effort and hard work.



He is black, was born in the slums of Brooklyn, New York, he passed his life in a poor neighborhood and is full of discrimination.

One day his father gave him a piece of used clothing,
"You think, how the value of this outfit?"

He replied, "Probably USD 1."

"Could be sold for $ 2?
If successful, it means you have to help my father and mother. "

"I will try it."

Then he took the clothes to the subway station and sell for more than six hours, he managed to sell $ 2 and ran home.

Later, his father again gave him a piece of used clothing,
"Try you sell for $ 20?"

"How could it be?
This outfit is the most just USD 2. "

His father said, "Why are you ill try it first?"

Finally, he got the idea. He enlisted the help of his cousin to describe a funny Donald Duck and Mickey Mouse a rogue on the clothing. He then sold it in school children of the rich, and the behavior of USD 25.

His father returned to give him a piece of used clothing,
"Are you able to sell it with the price of $ 200?"

This time he accepted without the slightest doubt, incidentally popular film actress "Charlie's Angels", Farrah Fawcett was in New York, after the press conference, he broke through the security guard and asked Farrah Fawcett signing the clothing mark. Then sold $ 1,500.

Later that night, his father asked,
"My son, three strands of experience selling these clothes, what do you understand?"

He replied, "As long as we want to think there must be a way."

His father shook his head,
"You're not wrong!
But I do not mean the father, the father just wanted to tell you that a piece of used clothing which is worth one dollar can also be increased in value.
Moreover, we as human beings?
Perhaps we are dark-skinned and poor, but what's the difference? "

Since then, he studied with harder and harder to undergo training, twenty years later, his name is famous worldwide.

He is MICHAEL JORDAN!